When you pity yourself for feeling the way you do about a situation not being “right” or “fair” because of how it affects another person you are immediately giving your power away, and those who are unconscious, or who lack emotional intelligence will feel justified when you give them that power and you will feel depleted…and the cycle continues.
In the ethers we also have 4 elements which spirit wants me to address as the 4 Pillars that make up the fabric of our Universe.
Pillar 1: Wetiko (evil, sinister dark energy)
Pillars 2&3: Yin (feminine energy includes deep shadow work. Works and compliments Yang energy)
Pillars 2&3: Yang (masculine energy is direct and action oriented. Works and compliments Yin energy)
Pillar 4: Third energy is when yin/yang energies are completely balanced (also known as the Holy Trinity, or the Holy Spirit etc)